My brother Jacob was born a healthy baby weighing in at 10 pounds. At first there were no obvious signs he had autism, he started walking and would reply every time we would ask him a question he would reply “ada”. Whilst my opinion is controversial, and I’m not denying there are probably other aspects to why he has his Autism and ADHD, but he didn’t do well after having the MMR vaccine. I remember hearing about his diagnosis when I was 13, I was sat on the stairs confused and sad. The doctor who first diagnosed him was rude, mean and painted a bleak life for Jacob. At the time he had developed a phase of lining objects up and doctor stared at him as if he was an animal. My mum rightfully stormed out.
Jacob was so behind in his education and unfortunately remains so. The mainstream primary school kept pushing him into a special needs school which was horrid in itself. After his diagnosis he didn’t speak at all and had a lot of energy to burn meaning he was easily distracted. Now Jacob will say the odd word and is more aware then before, but there is a long way to go, and his education feels substandard to help him improve.
We encourage him to do activities such as swimming and horse riding. Its important keep pushing your child with a disability and don’t give up on them. In reality not many people will support them therefore it is up to us parents, siblings and friends to support them.
Jacob's Time 
A very bleak prognosis will often be given for all disabilities. It seems most doctors will paint the most depressing scenario often to ‘cover’ themselves. It is up to the families and friends to rally around to create a more positive environment.
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